Day 23 – 3 Easy Steps to Not Only Surviving, but Thriving in the Storm.

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“I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.” –  Louisa May Alcott

Today I am writing, and I’m writing rather quickly because there are a set of storms that will be coming through in about 30 minutes. The storms have already produced a small tornado. And I started to realize all of the things that I needed to do before the storms came in case the power goes out, I decided that what was I needed to write about as well. One of the things that you learn living through lots of storms, especially if you live on a coastline like I do where there are lots of hurricanes, is that there are things that you can do to prepare for the storms and things that you can do during the storm in order to survive. So today, since I’m preparing for the storms, I thought I would share my tips for surviving storms the storms of life. As it turns out those for surviving the weather, apply just as well to surviving the storms that mark our lives.

  1. Prepare. The reason this is the first step, is because no matter what is going on in our lives if we take the time to prepare ourselves, we are better able to face the storms. During hurricane season we have preparedness kits so that if things go wrong (like they did with Katrina) we can have the supplies we need to be able to survive both the storm and the aftermath. We need the essentials. Food, water, medical kits, money, routes to shelters. Things of that nature. And in life we have to do the same. We have to prepare ourselves for what we will face. Part of this comes from learning from the things that have happened in the past. If we reflect on the difficult times we’ve faced before we can take things away from those situations that will help us in the future. We can utilize the strength and the knowledge we have gained. These are some of our essentials. We can make it a point to put ourselves mentally in a place where we are growing and confident in ourselves and our abilities to weather these storms. We can build a shelter. We can supply it with the materials we need if we take the time to reflect on ourselves and our lives, and to use that information to make a path to where we need to be. We have to organize ourselves – make lists (that’s why I’m writing this in list form now), figure out what we plan to do, because if we have those plans and they are tangible, they are our routes to safety during the storms we weather.
  2. Focus. Once the storm hits we have to stay focused. We have to take the time to be still and listen, especially when the winds pick up. In elementary school during tornado warnings we used to have to move to the hallway and sit in silence listening for the wind to start to sound like a freight train, and if it did, we knew to cover ourselves. This is what we have to do during the storms in our lives as well. We have to stop and pay attention. We have to focus. We have to look to see if what we are doing is the right thing to do. We go back to our list that tells us where we are going. We see if our current situation is a part of it. If it is, then we look around and figure out the supplies we need to utilize while this storm passes. It can be that we just need patience and a look back at the list so we remember that the storm will always pass. Or we may need the confidence to remember that we are accomplishing what we have set out to, despite the storm – because there will always be difficulties on our journey. If our current situation isn’t part of our path, or we’ve come to a crossroads we have to decide if we are going to leave the path behind to stay where we are (if so, refer back to the previous statements) or if we are going to leave our situation behind so that we can continue on to where we planned to go. And leaving a situation, especially an emotion-filled situation can be hard. It can create a whole new storm. But as long as we are paying attention and focusing on where we need to go, and what is best for ourselves and those we care about, then we can know that we are going to weather this storm and turn out all right in the end.
  3. Find joy. This third step may seem a little bit strange, so let me explain. Whenever there were hurricane warnings and we had to stay home from school, I always got a little excited. I knew that I would get to see at home, maybe with just flashlights and candles. I knew we’d make a tent. I knew we’d play games. And those weren’t things that happened all the time. Even though I was scared. And sometimes we had to stop playing to hide in the hall, we always had fun distractions from the storm at hand. Sometimes when we get into the day to day of life, we forget to have fun. We forget to have those moments of escape from the storm. It’s important to remember that sometimes we need a distraction or two. We need an adventure, even if it’s in the tent in the living room, to remind us of why we are in the storm to begin with. And to remind us that even in the storms, we can prosper. We can grow stronger. We can find happiness. We can share love. Even when the world outside is spinning and crashing and shaking the door. We can still know that there is something worth surviving for. We can find joy and let it guide us. There can be a rainbow on the other side.

About laurenc129

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Posted on May 23, 2012, in 31 days of May, writing and tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 13 Comments.

  1. I love the quote and I have another “life is not waiting for the storm to pass, its about leaning how to dance in the rain” (Vivian Greene). You describe this situation so well and a reminder to all of us how exciting storms were as children. If only we could apply this to the stormy times in real life. Your post gives me inspiration to try. thanks

  2. Beautifully put…

  3. Nicely written 🙂 I like the analogies 🙂 Funny you should mention the tornadoes… I lived in Oklahoma for three and a half years and we had the sirens go off two or three times. I swear, since we moved to Kentucky, we’ve heard the sirens go off for more frequently here than they ever did in OK. (It’s hard to give an estimate of the frequency, and I’m tired LOL, but it’s probably 3 or 4 times a year… probably nothing next to what you might be used to but you have to remember, I’m an English boy and we’re not used to this sort of weather LOL)

    • Thanks! We don’t have sirens where I live. We did where I went to school. But we just have to watch the news here or listen to the radio to see. But because we get a lot of storms come in off the coast line there are regular warnings. A lot of it is waterspouts which rarely make it to land though. It makes the UK sound good.. no tornadoes, no hurricanes, no earthquakes… few snakes. I need to move!

      • LOL You need to find a well paying job too… it’s expensive! I prefer the US… better quality of living… I just don’t like the healthcare system to be honest. You can’t afford to get sick. On the other hand, if you live in England, you don’t have to worry about it but you have to wait for surgery and the quality of the healthcare is not as good. As in the US, the key is finding a good doctor 🙂

  4. Very good thoughts….Diane

  5. Some good practical wisdom here.

  6. very impressive post! I like your blog!

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